My Dog
Posted by Allison Mack | Filed under Blog
I don’t know if all of you know, but I have an amazing dog. His name is Phantom. In fact, here’s a picture of the lovely beast:
Now I’m sitting here thinking about things I’ve had for more than 5 years…
I recently went through all my clothes, and I got rid of about 6 things that I’ve had for more than 5 years! I can’t believe it!
More than 5 years… I was thinking about how I’m now 25 years old and how incredibly strange that feels. I can remember being 8 and thinking to myself, “What am I going to be like when I’m 25?” I had this whole plan in my head, like I would be planning my wedding and getting ready to have kids in 5 years. I saw myself as being incredibly together and always knowing exactly when my bills are due and having a whole schedule for my life that I consistently lived by…
Holy crap, was I ever wrong!
Here I am at 25… I run screaming from the idea of marriage, and the thought of children is so far out of my realm of possibility that I’m surprised I can even visualize the concept. I’m perpetually scattered and always a little surprised when I get the second notice of an unpaid bill. It’s funny, I really thought that being on the planet and having “things” for a long period of time would solidify my person… You know what I mean?
Would somehow help me to find permanence in myself, because after all, I’ve had this tank top for 7 years… Anyone who can do that must have it all together.
The truth is I think my dog is the most sane and concrete thing in my life. Without him and his calm and slightly goofy demeanor, I don’t know if I would be able to remember what that feels like. He is the one thing that has been unbelievably steadfast and trustworthy for the last 6 years of my life. He has been my best buddy. I adore my furry friend. So nice to feel like I have one thing I’m committed to no matter what. I know it’s not the dog that provides this for me and that it is all something I create in myself, but I guess what I’m saying is that he sure is a good reminder that sticking to one thing for a long time really does have its rewards. I don’t know if this is making sense, but I just thought I would invite you into my brain for one small simple blog entry.
Phantom– a girl’s best friend.
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124 Responses to “My Dog”
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Kiona Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 3:01 amUp late I see. I find myself thinking about such things at this hour of the night, when I can’t find comfort in my pillow — such as tonight. I feel the older I get, the faster the moments, the years, pass me by. Which makes me realize how short life is. How valuable time is. The only thing thats truly been concrete has been change and people. I used to be so afraid of it. So haunted by the endless possibilities of it, good and bad. But in my quiet moments of my day, when I can calm my mind from over analyzing everything, when I can tune out from my boss yelling at me, I realize that I would be lost without it. At 23, I never thought I would be where I am at today. I always thought college would be behind me now, I would be a pediatric Nurse in some busy hospital, falling in love with my best friend, but life just kept flying by. After kidney surgeries, brain surgery, and so many other changes, I have no idea where I’d be if these changes never happened. The only thing that kept me going is people. People are amazing. Strangers are just friends waiting to happen. The only constant thing in my life, is the idea in my head that life can stop without loving others. Care about people, they’ll care about you. Life is change. Embrace it. All my love from good old Oregon, Allison.
Kiona
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Mike Hedge Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 3:49 amAllison you are a neat person. an inspiration.
my dog’s name was Chip.
mike
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Gabriela A. Angelini-Mathews Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 3:55 amAllison, note it’s not uncommon to have thoughts like that. Honestly it fits with your “self discovery” quest. And you do make sense about sticking to one thing for a long time having rewards. It comes with everything, if you commit yourself and do your best at it, they payoff should be grand. Even if there is no true compensation but the fact you being there from the creation to the end seeing it play out before you, IMO is the reward. Knowing you raised this dog since he was a puppy, to see him mature and grow this bond with you. The reward, you have a loyal companion who, based on the picture (cute btw) helps in your creative endeavors lol. Who brings joy to your life. I dunno if you had him since he was a puppy only a guess, but no matter. You created this bond with him through time, and that’s the reward.
Allison, I’m 30. Only 5 years older then yourself, and I understand where you’re coming from. At 8 I too thought I’d be married and have kids, being a teacher of History at a school. Now I’m 30, married yes but at 26 (year off hehe) have no kids, not ready, and I’m a Psychologist. Long way from being a History teacher LOL. Also having things for a long time, they won’t solidify you as a person. They are just things, but if they have memories attached with them, then that’s what solidifies you. If you have small statue from 10 years ago, it means nothing, but if that was the very first gift someone special in your life gave you, during the first christmas holiday season you spent with them, that’s what makes you whole. You look through your stuff, what do you see when you grab that 7 year old tank top? What memories do you have when wearing it. And if they are memories you cherish, is it a surprise you still have it?
We hardly predict correctly what we’ll be at 25, let alone 30, at the age of 8 cause the world was new so you’re future would mimic that of your parents with something you like. I wanted to have someone like how my mom had my dad, my favorite subject was history so thus history teacher. and at 8, 25 was years away, it’s practically ancient. LOL. But I grew up things change with new life experiences and then how you view things at 30 turn out drastically different then 8. But that doesn’t mean the life you led is incomplete. No rush, you’re still young. You might have these things you like to do prior to tying the knot with someone, doesn’t mean anything. Means you have new interest. Also the time period one lives in. 8 marriage at young age is a norm, you hear stories of how you’re parents met blah blah so you want that. Then you are at their age, things different.
You’re dog is cute, and he seems to be a loyal companion. You raised him well I bet. Unlike mere objects, your dog is a constant reminder of the good memories, and you see before you how he turned out. How you’re influence one way or another shaped this dog’s life. and I can relate.
Sticking with things do have it’s rewards. I stuck with a boy named Alessandro, developed a friendship, highs and Lows, lots of memories. My reward… he’s my man hehe. So yes, sticking with one thing does have it’s rewards.
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michelle Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:07 amwow.. i have only resently gotten hook on smallville and chloe is the bomb , but to find out just how normal you really are (after reading your blog) blows my mind.
as for your furry support , im a strong believer that when you have a special bond with your pet alot of there personality traits reflect on your own, i have a big beautiful boxer that has seen me through alot of tough times and shared heaps of hugs and laughs we me also. i’d be lost without her. it makes me smile that some one else has experienced the great feeling an animal can give( i thought i might be the only looney). give him a big cuddle from me.
and although i havent followed your career or even know to much about you , you should be really proud of all that you have achieved especially at only 25…. you rock.
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meemalee Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:12 amHi Allison
Why are you and Phantom all covered in mud?
meemalee
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Adrian Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:18 am5 years isn’t all that much… Wait until you do have children and you’ll think about these moments…
I’d rather have myself planned for a few years to come just like that even tho I know I won’t prolly stick to it entirely. I think it’s because you have to set yourself a goal, you visualize what you’re living for. Of course as you grow up thoughts change and you tend to forget the other dreams. But isn’t it a great feeling when you look back a few years and remember what you felt about the world, how you thought it’ll change!
And if you are to choose a sidekick in your life there’s no better choice than a dog I’d say. They’re always there for you (only if you weren’t that unlucky to choose a menace that keeps destroying everything, and even so…) and they look as like they always understand you even tho you don’t speak doghish. I have a great dog called Donna and got her for my birthday 9 years ago. And ever since she’s been a joy to be with. You gotta love them dogs
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Rafael Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:30 am5 years???? it`s okay…I guess……hahahha…..you`re a amazing person Allison!!! continue that way and never change!!!…..my dog`s name is MEL!! ^^…kisses from /Brazil
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natalia Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 5:26 amHi
I don’t have a dog, never had one really. I live in an apartment and I would feel sorry for my dog if it had to be trapped in here pretty much all day long.
I know exactly what you are talking about, I mean, I am 20 years old and I had pictured my life to be so much different! I had no idea I would be attending Medical School - and wanting to quit during every single exams period -, I thought I would be out of my parents’ house by now studying drama in a prestigious school in the UK, or at least something like that.
I also thought I would get married and have kids until the age of 30 but that seems like a very remote possibility by now, I mean, I feel like a child myself, how on earth would I raise one?Now, about permanence, I believe I’ve had enough of that already. I need something to change in my life, desperately! I want to go and see the world, I am sick and tired of sitting in this chair studying all day long for something that wasn’t even what I wanted to do in the first place!
Anyway, there’s not much I can do about that right now. Besides, I’m not sure until what point I really want to quit Medical School or if it’s just lack of self-confidence due to the not-so-great grades I’ve been getting…
Thank you for writing, Allison!
Beijos,
Nat
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Phil J Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 5:52 amTo be honest I was starting to think this site had just become an extension of your calendar, so I am extremely happy that you are back writing again! Speaking of clothes we’ve had for awhile, I still have this t-shirt from when I was in grade six that I still wear one year removed from highschool. I had to rip the sleeves and it’s been reduced to a shirt reserved for playing sports in.. But I’m always baffled by how it still somewhat fits when I’ve added about 9 inches and 70 pounds. At any rate, lol, it seems all I have is permanence. But it seems to be a double-edge sword of sorts. Call me conservative but I’m not one for change, so this whole post-highschool, pre-college phase can be frightening at times. Not be go into detail about my life (although as interested as I’m sure you are), but I’m headed to BC for school, all the way from a small town (like 1300 small) in Ontario. So I’m taking it step-by-step at this point. I think the scariest part of getting older is losing the sense of permanence you had in younger years, the routine. So I’m glad to hear you found some sanity through your dog amoung all of your craziness. And don’t worry, going into your brain is usually always interesting, if not insightful. Take it easy alright?
Blessings,
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Lydia Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 5:56 amYour dog is beautiful and adorable. I can imagine how much love, friendship and support Phantom gives you.
My rock and sidekick is my mom. She is my heart and my soul. She has always been there for me and I really wouldn’t know what I would do without her.
My life is pretty much like I imagined it would be. I have a good job, I rent an apartment and I’m happily living the single life. Except for one thing. I’ve always dreamed of traveling to the USA and Canada but, I thought it would be impossible. I was wrong.:-)
At 33, I feel like my journey has only begun. I’ve found inner peace and I aspire to live joyfully and to be truly myself. I’m so happy that I’ve never let go of my dreams because in September, for the first time, I’m going to really step out of my comfort zone and make a dream come true, even though I’m scared of the unknown. I’m going for a week on my own to Vancouver! It’s scary but also empowering.
Even though I don’t know what the future has in store for me but I’m holding on to my dreams, goals and aspirations.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
I wish you a joyful week (and a lovely Valentine’s Day with your boyfriend).
*hugs*
Lydia
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Daniel A. Pulliam Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 6:35 amHey, Allison. It’s funny, I have been checking out your site more in the past few days (and getting extremely excited about the premise behind “Alice & Huck”, by the way), and now here’s a new blog entry the following day. I’m going through a lot right now in my own life. There’s a lot of changes happening that I never would have forseen for myself. Suffice it to say that sometimes, even that seemingly stable situation of the marriage and the child doesn’t really balance out a choatic existence. I think maybe it’s just my natural state to be in turmoil, but reading that someone I so admire like you goes through the same process with herself is conforting in a strange sort of way. But anyway, back to on-topic subjects, is there any update you can give us on how the short film is progressing? And also, how short is *short* film? With the story as I understand it, it really seems like you’d need a feature-length film to tell it fully. I’d also love to get my hands on a poster without having to be a sponsor (I don’t have anywhere near what I’d need to donate that amount even if I wanted to). I know it may sound odd coming frmo a stranger, but you do have friends out in the world, Allison. You probably have some creeps, too…lol…but it’s more of a blessing than you even know to inspire people as you do. It’s a strange thing for me personally to feel empathy and compassion for someone I dont even know in my own day to day life. Do you ever feel that way yourself (like you have a sense of your fans and care for them despite their intangibility)?
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Geoff Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 6:50 amPhantom looks like a great dog to sit with while you relax and read a book/watch a movie/sleep.
Glad you’re back to reading Allison.
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Karen Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 7:00 amLOL!! When I was 8, 25 seemed so OLD…now I am 43…and if I could go back to ANY age at all, it would be 25!!
I loved being 25, the world was at my feet, I loved going out with my friends, exploring the world and cozying up at home..I was no where ready for marriage and children at that age! In fact, I waited until I was 32 for marriage and 35 for children…heaps of time for you, Allison..enjoy everything you do..and I love how fluffy Phantom looks, I bet he must feel so soft and cuddly! Oh, and BTW..I still have a favourite jacket in my cupboard that I had when I was 28..some things you just can’t let go of!! -
Robin Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 7:03 amHi Allison…and Phantom,
Boy, can I relate to this blog!!!
First off, It’s funny but Im nowhere near where I thought i’d be in my life i’m single with no kids and nowhere near marriage or kids, but it just shows you that it’s pretty hilarious and even silly to even think about predicting things in life…how boring life would be if we could.
As i’ve mentioned before my dog Roxy ( husky/collie cross) is the best thing in my life, I can’t tell you how great it is to be welcomed home and the joy of going for long walks (although i sometimes wonder who is walking who) and just someone to goof around with and play no matter what sort of day i’ve had at work.
Thanks for sharing some of your thoughts about your life and letting us know about Phantom.
Keep having fun
Robin
England
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Kasey Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 7:42 amI’m 21 and going through pretty close to the same thing. My mom is pretty upset because she wants grandchildren and I am terrified of having teh babies. Also, terrified of marriage. I won’t even go on a date just yet. I’m just not ready for a commitment. I have so many things that I want to accomplish.
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Gérsica Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 7:43 amWhen I was 5 or 6 ( I don’t remember exactly… ) I gave my mom a t-shirt with my little hands printed on it and now when I look at this I see how I grow up and how I thought that my life would be different (I never thought that I would pass the 11 years old haha ;D).
I have 9 dogs, they’re all little ones and even when they’re boring me they still the best things in my life and most have more than 4 years!kisses
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Patricia Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 8:27 amHi Allison!!!!!
A latter happy new year!!!!
God bless you always!!!!!!
Your job in Smallville it s just amazing!!!
See ya
kiss
PatrÃcia
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Jennifer Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 8:39 amHey Allison,thats a really cute picture of you and your dog.Phantom is so cute. I love dogs and would love to through my arms around him and give him a hug. I use to have a dog,her name was Sandy. She was a cocker spaniel with redish brown hair with beautiful curls. I found her when she was around a year old,she had been abused then thrown out of the back of a car in the middle of a shopping center. I had her for along time then 4 years ago I lost her to cancer. She was my baby,my best friend,my word. Whenever I was having a bad day she was alway’s there to cheer me up with her love. Ok moving on before I start to cry. When I was 8 I remember thinking by the time I’m 25 I would be married with kids and be a kindergarden teacher. That was alway’s my dream. Now I’m 2 weeks away from my 26th Birthday,I don’t really see marrage in my future for several years and kids well not for awhile after that. It’s weird how when your a kid and you plan that part of your life then when it gets here it’s totally changed. You just reminded me of something I’ve been wanting to do for awhile now but never got around to it,going through my closet. I know there are things in there that are 5 years old if not older. When it comes to clothes I have separation issues. lol
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Jenn Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 9:35 amI am 28 and I will be married for 5 years this April. We now have 2 kids with one more on the way. We are still trying to get our feet sunk into stability with jobs and such, but it is nice to know wherever we are or whatever we are doing we are together and that happiness doesn’t change on our circumstances. It is based on our relationship we have together and as a family. We have gone through alot together as I know everybody has their own trials in life, but it really is amazing what joy and happiness you can get out of life. It is our differences in our lives with the world around us that create so much beauty. It is funny how life doesn’t always give us the hand maybe we thought we would be holding when we were younger. I still have my freshman year highschool basketball shirt that I treasure. It is about transparent I think. But it is fun to remember where I have come from 15 years ago and the memories I have made, experiences I have had (and treasure) and how I have become who I am. My friends, family and even strangers I have met on the street have had an impact on my life and how I think. I love people and how different we are and how everyone brings their own light into life!
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The Great Ymmij Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 9:35 amI have t-shirts and shorts since I was in 6th grade (I’m a third year in college now), and I use them to work out in now, haha. I guess back in the day, my style was large-sized clothing, even though I was always a scrawny guy. I definitely grew into them for sure!
My dog’s name is White Socks….my dad named him. Anyways, he is a perfect example of a loving friend. No matter how long I’m away from him, once I come back home, he’s always jumping for joy and so happy to see me. He’s one of the many reasons why I look forward to coming home during breaks!
Jimmy
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paula Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 9:58 ami feel totally like you, i`ve had my dog six years ago, is amizing how a dog can receve you when you have had a ba day, my dog always make me forget the bad things, is incredible how they can give us love, i dont know what can i do without him.
his name is lucasa
a hug from me and my dog
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Jenny530 Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:14 amNo worries! Got stuff in my closet that’s over 10 years old!!! And it shocks me! Wish I had another dog…had a lovely one growing up. If I did…I would name him Sam. I am guessing it is paint on you and Phantom.
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Bruce Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:16 amAllison,
The passage of time seems to me to be a reminder of change, some good and some bad in my case. I still have many things from my past, some even from my childhood, which seems so long ago to me but then at times seem like a moment ago. It is funny how time seems to slip up on you and surprise you, and at times scare you with its rapid progress. Things are never exactly as we had them planned out, but life still finds a way to help us along to where we belong in the end.
I have a beautiful dog named Patches, whom I have had for over 6 years now. She seems to be a constant force in my life, and the one living thing that I know will always love me for just me. Isn’t it funny how animals will freely give thier love, when we humans must constantly strive to earn that affection from each other?
I hope you have his company for many years to come, and that we continue to see your beautiful face on the small screen for many years to come.
Take care and be well Allison,
Bruce
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:26 amThis blog entry reminds me of Jimmy Carter. When he took office as President of the US, he sold the Presidential yacht and filled in the President’s private indoor swimming pool (and used the room for office space). He explained his actions by saying that he wasn’t about to be cruising around in a yacht or swimming around in his own private pool while the people that elected him were struggling to feed their families. But the people didn’t like that. They wanted their President to be Presidential (actually more like a Monarch). The people wanted their President to live in a style that a rich country like the US could afford (even if it meant borrowing from every other country on the face of the Earth to do so). Some people asked why they would encourage their children to try to become President someday if that didn’t mean they would get the high life as well as the power and responsibility.
In that same vein, we would like to think that someone that is one of the lead characters in popular television series for seven years and with an additional 14 years in the business before that would have certain perks … especially one who is so perky. A lot of us would like to think that you have “people†– people to pay your bills for you, to pet your dog for you, to have your bad hair days for you …. We don’t want to hear any more stories about the stars of shows that got lousy deals when they signed their contracts and had to wash dishes to make ends meet while starring in a hit TV series. What’s the point of everyone wanting to be you or get to be where you are if getting the utility bills paid is still going to be a concern?
Despite how this sounds, I understand this all a little better than I would like to. A friend of mine just retired and ended his popular local television show after a 44 year run (with excellent rating throughout and always getting premium rates for commercials run on his show). I asked his wife if it was nice seeing more of him and she said that he had spent the months following his retirement in the studio every day putting together a series of “best of†CDs that he can sell along with T-shirts and autographed photos at personal appearances. He is in his late seventies and is known and loved by Hollywood stars, directors, writers, politicians and astronauts. There are a lot of people alive due to the money he has raised for charities over the years. Yet he is still scrambling for an income. He explains that he has a lot of grandchildren and great grandchildren that need shoes.
But what does that say to us little folk working for and looking forward to our big break? If we can just get that first book published … that movie deal … that TV series …! We’ll HAVE IT MADE! … or will we? I usually pay my utility bills three months ahead so that I m not bothered by finding the time to do it every month. Plus, I have THREE dogs … and three cats … and a ferret … and a couple step-sons. Is it possible that Allison Mack could envy ME and aspire to be ME?! If I ever find out that that is the case, what’s left of my aspirations will shatter to dust.
Allison, please don’t come down off that pedestal we made for you. We need you up there. And while you’re up there, pull out your be-jeweled cell phone and order yourself one of the biggest yachts they make … the Queen Mary if it’s for sale … and get yourself a swimming pool big enough to float it in! Let us keep our dreams of what it will be like when we make it.
Take Care,
DavidHayes1956
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EmilyS Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:37 amDogs are an amazing thing aren’t they?Two sit by my feet as I write this,loving eyes watching me carefully and noses ready to nuzzle at any moment.
I’m glad Phantom can be there for you,having one stable thing in life makes all the difference,and dogs are by far the best thing to have for stability.He’s a beautiful boy,I wish you two many more happy years to come,peace. -
Mark C.(Potsy) Potts Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:38 amHi,
Pets are great. Yep alot of commitment but hardly any scheduling, no phone calls, and no stupid questions. They don’t care what you wear, how your hair is, or what type of perfume you have on.
After alot of dogs, I had a cat that thought she was a dog. She hung around dogs when we went to the Vet and loved talking to the squirrels.
We would lounge on the sofa watching a movie sharing potato chips. When I came home she would jump off the window sill and turn upside down to make sure I would rub her belly. She was a good buddy.
I haven’t had a pet for a while, too many times I might not be at home at night due to emergencies. When I do, it will be another friend.
As far as life plans. Everybody makes them and they usually can’t come true. So don’t feel bad. My Son was born when I was 37, so you never know what might happen and when. Just smile and be happy.
Peace,
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Chelsea Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:49 amAww..look at Phantom! I don’t know why, but his face makes me smile!:) I feel like the youngest one in here considering this and since we’re sharing our ages.. I’m 18 and i’m at this very crucial point in my life where I can basically pursue anything! Unfortuneatly, like you, my young-girl dreams didn’t even carry me this far. There are days when I feel like I should hurry up and pick something and just be consistent about it… but, especially at this age, my mind won’t even allow it! It is somewhat comforting to know that this is something normal and common at any age and I’m not such a failure after all. And not to worry, about old clothes, because i have so many siblings that the clothing tends to stay in my family for years and years… my little sister couldn’t quite grasp the name of what passed-down clothes are called so she named them “handy-dams”!
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bridget Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 11:13 amThis cracks me up, Allison.
I am 25, too. When I first started reading this post I was thinking, “She’s 25? She’s got so much of her life together! She’s on a tv show, and is doing all these amazing things with the arts! Her life is so full and developed!….what have I been doing with my life??”
Then I kept reading and started to giggle. I am married and have a kid
Bridget Beth
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Gilles Belanger Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 11:16 amhi allison. its cool you put this blog up and that every one here still has things they had for a long time. when i was first born the doctors told my parents i wasnt supose to live for 24 hours. so my mom and dad went to a store in the hospital and they found and E.T. doll they put it in with me when i was sleeping and i am 25 years old today and i still have it lol. i have had that doll eversince and because im in a wheelchair when ever i have surgeries either for legs for my heart i always bring him along he is my good luck charm. the funny thing and i swear im telling the truth allison and everyone is when i was about 13 years my aunt who lives in erie brought it home when she left. i didnt have it for 2 weeks and i was very sick. i had the tempature of 101. i kinda started feeling a little bit better so i went to school one day and i came home and my mom told me to go look in my room. i went to my room and i found my E.T. doll on my bed he has all my hospital braclets, a pic of my grandmother, and my first ear ring lol. i also had a manx cat named cheesie. he actually passed 3 weeks ago but i had him for 21 years. of couse his name was cheesie cause he was orange lol but he hated cheese. but those are my 2 important that mean to me. and allison ur dog is cute. if im able to some how put pics of my cat and E.T. on here i will try cause they mean the world to me still to this day
Gilles xo
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Allie Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 11:35 amAwwww!!! What an adorable dog! Is it a purebred or mix? I would guess Alaskan Malamute/german shepherd mix if it is…Either that or a purebred Belgian Shepherd Dog…
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AnnK Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 1:00 pmI like how you include your dog in your art of mud and fun. :o) The weird thing is…I know EXACTLY how you feel. Here I am 22 and not out of college yet. I thought by now I’d be married and working on my career. And it doesn’t help that all my friends are married now.
All the time I feel like I’m behind or like there is something wrong with me, but it’s not true. I just have a lot of things that are priority right now. To me, my dreams come before any guy. I crave adventure and acheivement more than anything right now. Someday, marriage will me my adventure and yours too…but for now the rough and rocky adventurous road beckons us another way.
Oh and I’m the same way about my cat. He is the one thing that can always bring me joy. He’s getting a bit older now and he still acts like a kitten. We have this little game that we play, it’s kind of like tag. It’s fun.
OH MY!!! While I was writing this I just got a call from a screenwriter! OH MY GOODNESS!!! That’s so exciting because he’s gonna hook me up with some connections! (I’m an aspiring writer) Whew! Just thought I’d tell you!
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Kyle Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 1:36 pmYes, what you’re saying makes sense. Actually, almost never do we end up what we imagine when we’re five or six. As we grow we start to change through different experiences.
Anyways, its good to have something steady and concrete in life (like your dog). Everyone needs consistency.
-Kyle
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Adrian Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 2:27 pmI just saw again the episode in which the Smallville characters had their last day of high school. I miss high school! I think I’m gonna go cry somewhere. :((
Life passes and the best thing to do is find the joy and the best of every moment in it. It doesn’t matter what’s going on, there’s always something positive with that even though it may not seem so at the moment. I try keeping my heads up for the future but right now I’m still gonna cry like a baby for those beautiful memories.
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Reshma_Witchick Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 2:47 pmAw man I had a doggie once….but we had to give him away
He was a great dog..I like how I can be feeling something, log onto this site and see that you’ve posted the exact thoughts I’ve been having!lolz.
Life really is never what you plan it to be, is it…?Hope you’re great Allison!
And all these great fans on here too
Enjoying Smallville right?
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Lea Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 2:51 pmIsn’t this nice! God I feel like I’m talking LOL I remember one assignment when i was a kid the title was “Where am I goning to be in 5, 10 and 20 years” I thought i had my whole life planned, so funny when i read it now (yes, i still have that LOL), of all the things i thought i would have by now the only thing i really have is the love for animals including my lovely dog… her name is Cookie, she’s 8 years now and i love her to death and when i see her i just love animals (and my career) even more…
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taylor nikole Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 3:26 pmoh no…
So a part of me wants to grow up and spread my wings.. and well fly! it feels like i have so much time and yet not enough…
I want kids (someday), a family… and not to be on my own in life.. and love
I’m only 14 and what person doesn’t dream of being on their own someday…
I’m an independent person, but I wonder what my life will be like when im on my own, especially if i don’t have someone there with me…
I’ve always thought of myself as very independent..
i have my own ideas… thoughts on life… ive always gotten through school with the least amount of help because i feel if i don’t learn it on my own and understand it… how am i ever going to make it through college
But throughout that all I’ve always had someone to fall back on… some support or bastion…
and it leaves me wondering what i will do if i fall flat on my ass in the real world…
My grandma has been there to teach me so much… about being independent… and getting things done… and she also teaches me how to deal with all the stress in my life…
I don’t have a pet to keep me sane.. but my grandmother does… I tell her everything and she is basically my best friend
that woman is my herotaylor nikole
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Daniela (Mexico) Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 3:41 pm.. Phantom is so cute!!!
He stole a smile from me xD
i just feel exactly the same way you feel!!
.. and when i turn 25 i will feel the same,
i think xDKids¿?¿? Marriage¿??
hmmm… maybe when i get 31
or 50 !!!!
wish you the best in everything you do,
and i wanted to ask..Are you going to be directing an episode.. with the strike ended ??
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TREENA Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:29 pmHi, Allison
You are fantastic, if you didn’t already know. You are insighful well beyond your years. I am 30 yrs old, and i have been married for 6yrs. What a rough time that I ‘ve had. I believe your making the right decisions for yourself. There is nothing wrong with change eventhou i hate it. I thought i had my whole life planned out at 24. I graduated college, and went to graduated school. Now, i have to start from scratch. How about those apples?
Allison Mack, you are such a real person if you can understand where i am coming from. You are upbeat and funny . however, You bleed just like the rest of us by your commentary,and because you are so talented, creative, smart, and beautiful on the inside and out. The sky is the limited for you Ms. Mack.
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t Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:35 pmwhoa that picture is awesome! it’s like you’re painted on!
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shinefloyd / luigi Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:41 pmhehehe….
Phantom in the Paradise…
your dog is… be close to an Angel….
and you have your wings… open and ready to fly..
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mariah Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 4:59 pmHoly crap! I can’t believe how much I just related to that blog entry. My cousin and I talk all the time about future things like when she’ll be married, and how she’s going to get herself an Irish man, and what my wedding will be like..then I have to pause for a quick second, and remind myself that I’m 15.
I can also agree with you on the dog aspect of that entry. I myself have a two year old golden retriever Molly, and she means the world to me. It’s weird kinda, how much a simple animal can mean to someone. She’s always there for me, and is possibly the funniest thing in my life. She truly does have her own sense of humor, and personality…anyways…
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Osbaldo Sanchez Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 5:37 pmhola allison….
espero que te encuentres muy bien la verdad, i don`t know if you know spanish, because i don`t speak and write english, pero de todas formas aqui estoy dejandote este mensaje y pues como ahy dije no se mucho ingles apenas en eso estoy la escuela se ha vuelto aburrida pero mi lucha estoy haciendo y sigo estudiando aunque dure mil años en terminar, do you like a pizzA? trabajo en una pizzeria muy ricas por cierto, en mi casa tambien teniamos un perro ase mucho tiempo era de la raza samoyero asi tipo lobo, era muy obediente su nombre era spaic lo queria mucho y un dia lo envenenaron =( y pues nunca supe quien fue pero pues lo pasado pasado y eso solo queda en mis recuerdos…
bueno me despido allison espero puedas dejarme un mensajito en mi metroflog…
http://www.metroflog.com/sockersk
you`re a very beautiful!!!!!
im from sonora, mexico.. in obregon city..
esperare por una respuesta tuya por mi metro flog algun comentario oks?
cuidate mucho y que estes bien siempre….
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Krystal Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 6:36 pmAllison,
You have no idea what a relief it is to read your thoughts and to see that someone else is thinking the same things that I have been thinking. I had no idea that my 25th birthday would be such a big deal. But since I turned 25, in July, I have felt such an urgency to evaluate who I am and who I am becoming. I too thought that I would be nearing marriage by now. I really thought that I would have it all together. I get up everyday and go to teach my students and sometimes it totally cracks me up that “I” am a teacher. When I was in school, I always assumed teachers were REALLY together people. Either I broke the mold or people are just not as I had supposed.
Anyhow, I just wanted to let you know that I literally breath a sigh of relief when I read these blogs and think…..”Hey, maybe I AM somewhat normal.” Whatever normal is anyway.
Rock On!
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dh1031 Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 7:03 pmCool dog Allison!! Dogs are great, they’re always happy to see you, they always have time to listen to you, and they always seem to sense when you’re feeling bad or down. They’ve shown time and time again how theraputic having a dog can be, and there are a multitude of programs that have folks take a dog in to visit hospital patients.
I remember thinking when I was growing up that a switch would go on when I turned 21 that said, “okay you’re an adult now, you need to do this, this, and this…” but it did not turn out that way. I’ve always been a pretty logical minded person, and that’s helped me in keeping a schedule of what needs to be done when with work, bills, etc. But as I get ready to turn 28, I’ve still not had that realization that says, “okay, you’re an adult now.”
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, they make perfect sense, in fact it’s good to know there are folks that have the same way of thinking as I do!!
Kind Regards,
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Rafe Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 8:16 pmYou should always invite me into your brain, Allison. You are the most HUMAN person I always “met”. When you are completely “offline” out of job and out of tasks and write only what’s in your mind, is a trip to another world for me, I travel!! Sometimes I ask myself: “Is there someone else like you? Anywhere in the world? Could I find this person?” I could listen to you for hours and hours without realize the time passing by… You don’t need to make any sense, just say…
You are a dream!!!
I Love You!!!!!
Ciao for now,
Kisses,
Rafe.
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mabel Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 8:55 pmphantom… a good looking boy!
i have two dogs Boni and Morocho and two cats Michi Baby and Murci. i love them all a lot.
when i was 25 (now i am 43) all things were about to be discover. every place, every word, every face. and now i find myself feeling the same but in other perspective: experience. all what we’ve learned counts to make more amazing what we are going to learn.
i took my time for having children. i was 36 when Roman (my 7 years old son) came to my life and he is the little person who teaches me every day how wonderful is this life.
Allison be perpetually scattered no matter the age no matter things you kept for years just breathe every moment and give my regards to your lovely phantom.Always glad to talk with you
Mabel
from Los Cardales ArgentinaPD: i have t-shirts i wore in my twenties is that normal? who knows.
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Fannie (montreal) Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 10:07 pmomyh … i havent grown in a shitload of time lol so i’m basically wearing the same pj pants i had 6 years ago . I know … but if it still fits , and i dont absolutely hate it lol …I just dont see why i should get rid of it! Even if i dont wear it … I’ll figure out some creative thing to do with it some day ! and when i get rif of somthing that i feel is to old … there always comes the time , a few years later when I need that exact THING!!! LOL my “steal-a-kiss” is my dog Buddy! because when I was 8 years old lol , I was completely obsessed with the movie AirBud, and dreamed i would have a basketball playing dog someday ! and My dream came true! He’s seven years old now and were still working on the whole basket ball thing LOL!
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Lisa V Says:
February 11th, 2008 at 11:42 pmHi Allison!
I’ve been reading your blog since this past fall and I’ve really wanted to post a comment ever since finding this site on the internet.
Your topic this week really hit home for me and it’s so refreshing to read your thoughts and those of others on here and realized I’m not the only one evaluating where I am at right now. I turn 30 next week and all I’ve been thinking about is how I had pictured my life differently. I thought I would be married, have kids, the usual stuff. We can plan out our lives all we want but I think that life will always throw us for a loop.
I’ve been thinking a lot about a quote that I think I saw on here. “If you always knew what was around the corner, what would be the point?” I try to look at life as one big adventure and try to get as much out of it as I can. Of course I set goals, and try to accomplish them, but sometimes life just doesn’t turn out how you expected it to and that can be a good thing!
I accomplished many of my professional goals like getting my college degree and having a good job but the degree I earned and the job I have is not what I had planned. But I loved the classes I ended up taking in college and I love my job.
I guess my point is we can’t be disappointed by what we haven’t been able to accomplish but be proud of what we have.
I don’t have a dog but I have a cat named Lucy who I LOVE and she’s like my little buddy who relocates with me everywhere I move to for my job. She’s been my one constant companion in my life for the past 8 years and I don’t know what I would do without her. Don’t you just love pets?
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Fernie Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 12:21 amHeh heh… maybe I’m just “chronically vertically challenged”… I have two sets of sweat pants I used in 6th and 7th grade that I still wear to work around the yard and car… I’m now 23 about to graduate college and they still fit.
Forget going back to 6yrs old for plans, when I got out of high school I was ready to finish college in just two years, job, marriage, travel the world, kids by 30’s… toss in some health problems that set me back in college, and now 23 old, will graduate at 24, no marriage or travel in the near future…
On a positive note, I have a black lab… about the only true friend I see everyday he doesn’t care if I didn’t do my homework or was late, he’ll greet me with this dumb smile and drool in excitement when I come home. Gotta love them furry things
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Robin Hebert Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 1:17 amHi Allison, that is a very interesting picture…wow, what a beautiful dog, what breed is he? Phantom, could it be you got that from the zone? LOL.
First of all, thanks for inviting us into your “world”.
I just turned 52 on the 7th….hey that’s 25 reversed. But seriously, I know living this life is supposed to give you wisdom especially from experiences.
There is so much that we could all share to help each other on this road of life.
BUT we all find out as we go along that there a few important things:
things always work out……eventually…. especially if we put it in God’s hands.
knowing that our lives are so brief, we should just enjoy each day and not sweat the small stuff….
You have done so much for your 25 years….
enjoy the journey!
you know what I think about marriage:
its a covenant, between people who truly love one another and know they are meant to be together…..
this world has cheapened it so much, its truly an honorable thing!
So, why worry about it, you will know when it’s time to enter into that chapter of your life.
This chapter of my life, I’ve decided to laugh more.
I started watching comedies like Seinfeld and Frasier…..I want that serotonin to be flowing! hahahahah. God bless you Allison! Robin -
Misslane Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 5:06 amHey finally you hear my advice of writing about Phantom hehe.
I adore your dog Allison!!! but I saw a photo of you and a mixed golden…. is your pet too???
So, the best friend I have in my life my golden retriever.
her name’s Lois (hehehe) and she is 2 years.
Here you can see the photo and the web about her:
http://www.loismygirl.comwell… I have no words to discribe the feelings about her.
I love her so much and enjoy spending funny times with her.
We use to run near of the beach (because I am trainning for National Police), we also go to Agility Club near of our town and she loves that, because she loves running and play with me and with my fiance Ann.
I think that I couldn’t live without her and she always makes me smile even I am sad.
When I am sick she stays near of me, and when I am happy she is too.I had got my driver license last week and we are planning a lot of trips with Lois.
Do you know?? when you think of when you were 8 and the thoughts you had when you were a children, you can check that a lot of dreams came true but another plans you had in the past, they are quite different now.
When I was a little girl I thought that when I was 26 (my age)
I’d be married with a handosme guy and I’d be to the university and these things.
and now, hehehe, I think my life is quite different hahahaha. because I haven’t gone to the university, I am a soldier now and well about the handsome guy hahahaah, my fiance is a gorgeous girl haha and I am very happy with my life.
Because of this you can’t plan anything because you don’t know for certain what will happen in the future!!ps: I hope to see more phamton photos, I mean, a trip with him or playing wth him… it’s more allison!!
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Joscha (Germany) Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 5:27 amHey,Alisson!
You are a great person,that you told us your senses is very great.
in the summer i will be 30 years old,and i think where are the years gone???
i realized you so good.
pets are great at this time!
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MILKA from BRAZIL Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 6:20 amHello Ally,
I know exactly what you mean. We use to create ideas about our future. But things never happen as we imagine.
I mean, I’m 23 years-old, I’ll graduate this semester (public relations), and I work as a probationer to an enterprise in the marketing area.
But I come from a small town and when I was a child I never thought that I’d go to an university someday!
We need to take chances, and try new things, always!
Take things as they come, and never be scared of what tomorrow may bring!
I don’t have a dog, but I have so many amaizing friends, who are always there when I need them! And that’s all matters!I’m a big fan of yours!
beijos de todo o Brasil!*
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Claude Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 7:25 amAllison,
A seven year old tank top is nothing to worry about. I have clothes and shoes (a tux and dress shoes for sure, and probably a few others) that are older than you!
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Cheekycrissy Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 8:49 amRight now i live in an apartment where i can’t have a dog (its communal and i mot allowed any pets in the building) So for now its just visiting my mons two adorable lasserabtso’s (they’re liks Shitzu and i don’t even think i spelt the name right…they just tiny dogs that you can fit in a handbag easy) Their names are Lucy and Apollo, Lucy is gettin older now and she don’t wanna play anymore.. i’ll throw a ball for her to go get and she just looks up at me and says ‘Hey, YOU go get it, I’m goin back to bed!’
Apollo on the other hand is younger more energetic and ALWAYS wants to play. And i LOVE how dogs greet you from the moment you walk through
the door, like a bunch of exciteable kids like somethin out of the flintsones with ‘Dino’ lol Its a really nice feelin to be appreciated and they’re not even human!Phantom looks cute BTW
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lfeszetddybr Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 9:11 amTime has a way of sneaking up on us, and I can understand what you are saying about having things from the past. I have many things from over the years, and even a few things from my childhood (which seems so long ago). I am not where I pictured myself so many years ago, but I am still alive and around family and friends, so am satisfied.
Your dog is very beautiful, and seems a loving companion. I have a dog named Patches whom I have had now for six years and raised from just a few days old… she is a important part of my life, and it seems funny to me that animals so freely give their love, when we humans must constantly struggle to earn this emotion from each other.
I wish you many more happy years with your friend and companion Phantom, just as I hope we can continue to watch your beautiful visage on the small screen for many years to come.
Take care and be well Allison.
Bruce
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Heather Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 9:14 amYour dog is beautiful! Aren’t animals the best! Everyday when I walk through the door of my apartment and see my cat come running, I get the biggest smile on my face. Her name is Desi, and for the last 3 years, she has been providing me with joy, smiles, laughter, and stories. Sometimes I think she is absolutely insane, which makes me love her all the more. She plays non stop and will even do flips when she gets really excited. It’s hilarious! What a sense of humor and relief she brings to my life
And, it never hurts when I’m having a down day and she jumps up and rubs her head against mine, almost as if saying, “It’s alright…I understand.” So weird, but I’m so thankful for it This entry makes me want to go through my entire apartment and search for things that have been consistent in my life haha. I am more than sure that if I went through my closet, I would have a large pile of things I have had for years and don’t even wear anymore. I don’t know why they are even there anymore…perhaps I’m a pack rat haha. And, I definitely know that there are many items throughout my apartment that have been consistent throughout my life since I left home for college 7 years ago haha. The one that sticks out the most, off the top of my head at least, is my guitar (however I would not change that for anything in the world!) It’s funny how something as simple as the sight of my guitar (his name is Micah…I know naming a guitar is kind of weird isn’t it!? haha!) sitting on the stand when I walk through the door everyday, is able to instantly make me feel at home. I’m so glad for that feeling. It’s an incredible feeling to be able to just pick up that guitar and literally play all my worries and troubles away.
When I was young, I never pictured myself being 25 years old, single, sitting at home alone on Friday and Saturday nights, pouring my thoughts and feelings into the strings of a guitar. I’m not really sure what I invisioned for myself exactly. I always knew that music was a huge part of my life and that’s what I wanted to do in some way (because after all, putting together all of those shows and musicals when I was little can’t go to waste! haha) but I guess part of me always thought, “25! That is so old! I can’t even think about being 25!” Looking back on it now, 8 years old seems like SO long ago. I guess things change slightly as we get older, but I’m not sure I would change anything that has happened over the years. As simple and un exciting as my life can be at times, I love it and am thankful for each and every day.
This is a great blog and I think you are such an inspiration. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us, and for allowing us to share ours with you
You rock! Heather
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Jacob Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 9:48 amDear Allison,
I recently sat down 2 months ago and started watching all of the smallville episodes and I now feel compelled to tell you that you are clearly one of the strongest actors in the show. I am certain that without you, the show would be lacking in originality.
Just wanted to commend you on your fantastic acting abilities. I look forward to watching how your character is developed and how you will play the part.
Cheers,
Alan
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Luca Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 10:31 amWow… this entry is awesome.
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GeaN Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 1:08 pmHey Allison!
You’re incredible! and also human hehe… like… watching you all those years on Smallville, i could never believe you can read this, you know.. it’s pretty cool of you share your thoughts to your fans, showing the human behind “Chloe Sullivan”, I appreciate that.
By the way…
“I run screaming from the idea of marriage”
That’s really funny. xD
xoxo
GeaN
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Lydia Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 2:13 pmWhen I started my medical studies seven years ago I thought at the end of my study I would be “all grown up†and I would have the self confidence and knowledge to treat patients without a doubt of my abilities…ok, I have the theoretical knowledge by now (just learning for my exam in two month) but treating patients on my own responsibility- the very thought of it really freaks me out! How can people take me serious as their doctor…I’m just 26 and I don’t have any work experience…?!
But…I think I have to rise to the challenge, just enter working life and do my best….
Luckily I always have the support and trust of my sister and my parents… I don’t know what I would have done without them during the last years!It’s great that you share your thoughts with us and Phantom looks really fluffy and dependable…a nice dog
Keep smiling
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 2:15 pmAwesome, tolerant, understanding …
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Neil Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 2:37 pmI have a dog also who is my best friend. I’ve had her since she was 8 weeks old (now 11 yrs old). She’s a Maltese/ Poodle mix and nearly all white, and a fluffyfur ball. Hence her name : COTTON.
She’s the best dog I’ve ever owned. She’s silly, faithful, loving, and loyal. She gets so excited whenever I get home that she runs laps around the dining room table (LMAO).She’s fun to play with. She stays by my side when I feel sick or down. She follows me wherever I walk in the house. There are down days when I talk to her and she wags her tail. It makes those days feel much better. He favorite thing to do is go “BYE BYE” (ie short road trips). I’m so glad you’re a dog person, too.
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Daniel Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 4:06 pm“We’ve got to hold on to what we’ve got, and it doesn’t make a difference if we make it or not.”
It’s amazing to have something, usually the only thing, that has been with us for many years. During the last 7 years I’ve seen countless people come and go. And less than a handfull is still present. And it’s also wierd to think how, maybe the only reason why those special people stayed, was because YOU stayed.
You’re pup Phantom is great looking. Seems like he is a great companion. =]
Take care Allison.
Daniel
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ThisTimeIGotIt Says:
February 12th, 2008 at 9:59 pmI am afriad I never had a dog. Though I have had pets. It is wierd when you stop and realize how long they have been there for you, and that is what that do, be there for you. You might have heard this before, but it is true ppl with Dogs are even other pets live longer happier lives. (and I know I am the best speller around)
Wh
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Carlos Eduardo Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 12:36 amHi Alli!, this one goes for your Phantom:
Phantom, before this blog entry, I didn’t know how important you are on Allison’s life. You’re awesome!
Thank you for giving her trust and calm. Thank you for making her smile and laugh. And specially, thank you for being her best friend. You are one-off!
Bravo Phantom, you are not a dog, you are “THE DOG”!
Bye Phantom!
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Joscha (Germany) Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 4:04 amHey,Alisson!
You are a great person,that you told us your senses is very great.
in the summer i will be 30 years old,and i think where are the years been gone???
i realized you so good.
pets are good friends in this time!
best wishes from germany,
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mikefromutah Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 9:36 amI thought I’d stop by and say hi, And to tell you i’m a HUGE fan. I’ve been following your career since Smallville, I know this has nothing to do with the subject but, I think your doing a fanfuckingtastic job, Keep up the great work. I’m still trying to get a part on the show, So hopefully I might see you soon, If not then i hope to hear from you. Have a great day.
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BeccaE Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 9:42 amI have a dog, and if you go to my myspace, you will see him. He’s a boxer named Drake. He is a really smart dog, but soooo stubborn. He’s just like my husband, no matter how many times I tell them no, they go and do it anyways, lol. I also fully appreciate the ‘where am I now’ feeling. A part time security guard with no college education is not where I wanted to be. But then I am to shy and nervous to do what I really wanted to do. So, I do with what I have. It has it’s rough spots, but it’s good. Love ya.
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 1:25 pm… and HELPFUL … going above and beyond the call of duty!
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 2:44 pmA Phantom Haiku:
Doggie Devotion:
Given without condition.
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Gabriella Andrade Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 5:17 pmmy dog’s name is Spyke; and I think that I know what you mean.
I just love your thoughts and how you write them. This just shows how you are a ‘normal’ person too.Well, sorry about my english… I’m still learning.
and that’s all.kisses a lot from Brazil !!
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Therapeutic Ramblings Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 6:30 pmNice blog. It is odd how we can look at something as benign as clothing and draw so much from it. I posted awhile back about this very thing.
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Marilyne Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 8:03 pmYeah!!!! the Writers’ Strike finally came to an end…now let’s hope they agree on the new convention..5 more episodes of Smallville, great!!
This blog is so amazing, you answered to some of the questions I asked in the survey ;P
Marilyne
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AnnK Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 8:26 pmOk, so I noticed that you added 4 more blog icons on the top of the page. HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU KEEP TRACK!!! I have 3 and I don’t even keep track of those. ha ha!
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AnnK Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 8:27 pmOh yeah…on top of those blogs is the College Student website and Juicy Peach. hm…hope you got someone like Tabby for all of those.
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ziggyfly Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 8:37 pmhi allison and every1. i wrote on here on this blog but must of messed up lol cause i didnt submit it. i like this blog and i like the fact that everyone keeps things still. when i was first born the doctors told my mom and dad that i only had 24 hours to live. so my parents went to a drug store in the hospital they found an E.T. doll they put it by my bed and i will be 26 years old this year lol.. i call him my good luck charm. i still have him and when ever i go to surgeries or doctor appointments i still bring him along :)…. well thats all i wanted to say. in case u see doubles of me my bad then the submit worked lol and ur dog phantom is cute allison. l8z
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Dave Says:
February 13th, 2008 at 8:55 pmHere I am, almost hitting 30, and I have to say Allison, it never gets easier.
Don’t run from marriage. Marriage is a sacred, intimate connection between a man and woman, who find there is no reason to be apart. When you find that special man, instinct will kick in, and you will never imagine being with anyone else. I only hope that someday, I find that woman who will be the same for me.
Stay open to the possibility of children. Children are the stuff of heaven, and the most rewarding gift to anyone’s life who is blessed by them. Coming from someone who at times is melancholy at the fact that he hasn’t become a father yet, realize that continuing the human race is why we are here. Have children when you are ready and prepared mentally to do so. So many people forget that.
Having a dog certainly helps though. They’re so loyal.
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Gosha Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 1:49 amCategorically welcome all. About brothers our less I can say a lot of what. I had a dog, called his Count. I found(in a trash tank!!) him in the street, yet by a puppy. Just borning, defenceless creation was aborted on a street(in winter) to perish! Well and who of us beasts?? When he grew, began to turn grey, while did not transform from thickly-black, in grey spanielya. And then he escaped. I was about eight years ago then, so I did not cry a long ago. As the saying goes, an owner is which, such is a nurse-child. “We are responsible for those, who was domesticated”(quotation from the “Little prince”) I tried, but apparently not so as it is needed it was. A friend Ellison, apparently very kind dog, so it seems to me.
Well as though said everything. Sayonara=)
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litew8 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 3:05 amBecome a Conservative, you’ll feel better about yourself. 3/4 of the things you say sound conservative, the other 1/4 Liberal. The 1/4 is messing with your thoughts.
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litew8 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 3:09 amLooking at the photo, something seems wrong with it. Can’t tell if that is suppose to represent blood on your arms and the dog’s legs or if it is suppose to signify something else. Must be liberal tendencies.
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 6:41 amlitew8,
Just a liberal dose of hair dye … as shown earlier:
http://www.daybow.com/images/Phantom_Comment_2.jpg
Hmmm. A Dog Blog. And idea that’s sure to catch on better than Cat Chat did.
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daniela Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 7:04 amAllison te acho uma garota sensacional, observo o seu trabalho a 7 anos e comecei a torcer pelo chlark no episodio da segunda temporada rush confesso que ja chorei por vocês varias vezes e acho que o chlark merece uma chance de estarem juntos pelo menos em um episodio e aguardo isso a oito anos eu e um milhão de espectadores no Brasil, bjos e abraços de Daniela email dafsilva2005@hotmail.com
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Elizabeth M Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 9:21 am25 years old - its like this magic number. You are leaving your early twenties and the next landmark you are facing is 30 and you mind just starts racing with thought of “oh my god I should be grown up now.” I will be 26 next month so even closer to 30. Many a times this month I have mused on the “am I where I thought I would be at 25″
I wanted to be successful, with a good job. That’s all I think I really wanted and maybe my own place. I have that job…its finacailly secure, I am seen as being a “fast track” employee, I am getting paid well, but it turns out thats not what I really want. I am not happy in my job, and I sometimes wonder how I got here…I think may have spent too much time chasing the dream that other people wanted for me….trying to me the expectations I feel were pushed upon me but friends, teachers etc. My parents never expected anything of me, yet I have spent my life trying to be a successful person - for whose happiness I don’t know.
I’ve moved 3 times in 24 months chasing something, and I still can’t decide what I want…nevermind think about kids and marruage. I couldn’t even date a guy for 2 months without needing my own space.
I think I need to start making some decisions and really sticking by them…I am just scared to make the wrong ones :S
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 12:02 pmWant in on a little secret? Kryptonite causes animal mutations too! Look here:
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 12:10 pm… I always thought it was because she was a “fan of Tom” … “FanTom” … “Phantom”
Well, now I know different … thanks to that picture from Allison Mack Offline.
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Ksenia Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 12:50 pmAllie, I feel just as well about my dog, Irzhik. He’s been with me for 12 years and I’ll be grieving my heart inside out when he’s gone. I had his older mentor-dog that had been with me for 15 years but he died 3 years ago. They both were and are my touchstones. These creatures are blessed with deeper and unconvential understanding. They just know.
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vanyi Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 1:29 pmallison,
hi! you posted a lovely picture. your dog it’s really nice.
abaut what you say of all this stuff of marriage and children… well I think you have the right age to get married and have kids… you don’t fell ready now… but let’s face it, you won’t ever fell ready. the things will just get in you way….you will recieve everything with a smile… i’m sure abaut it.
kisses…
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Pospola Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 2:05 pmHi Allison!
This is funny, I have just finished my drawing of you with your dog Phantom!
But when I started to draw it I had no idea, that you have write this article about him! I have seen Phantom, when he was a puppy (you have showed a photo of him in an old interview) he was sooooooo CUTE and he is STILL CUTE! He is a lovely dog! Allison, you are a fantastic actress and a fantastic person
You are my star number one 
ps: I’m sorry, if I have some mistakes in this text, because I’m from Czech Republic, so I can’t speak so good English…
Pospola
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Olushola Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 3:21 pmHappy Valentine’s Day dear Allison! I bumped into your site today. Coincidence ? I watch Smallville because of you. Hope you will read this message!
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litew8 Says:
February 14th, 2008 at 11:05 pmDavidHayes1956 Said:
February 14th, 2008 at 6:41 am
litew8,
Just a liberal dose of hair dye … as shown earlier:
http://www.daybow.com/images/Phantom_Comment_2.jpg“What are you talking about DavidHayes1956?
Out of all seriousness, what does the picture mean?
Allison, you should provide a little history when posting perplexing pictures. Wouldn’t want visitors getting the wrong idea. -
alfonso(barcelona)(spain) Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 2:28 amHey, Sorry bat my enghis is very bat. I like Smallville and you actuaction. Bay
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 7:38 amAnd I understand that Phantom always has a friendly greeting when people come to visit!
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:01 am… news item today. Psychologists have noted a new mental condition worldwide among young males. They’ve named the condition “Phantom Envy.”
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bourdieu Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 8:26 am25! I think at 25 one should probably talk to one’s parents about the travails of adulthood and life-paths and so forth. They might chuckle and reassure but are probably just happy that their baby has made it that far in one piece.
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Deacon Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 11:33 amAllison,
Total stranger offering advice about children. Isn’t that great? I knew that’s what you wanted.
So here it is: Someday (maybe it’s already now…what do I know?), there’ll be this young man. And you’ll think he’s interesting and funny. And you’ll like the way he laughs at your lame jokes, or the way his nose wrinkles when he’s happy, or the way his eyes light up when you enter a room, or the way your fingers and his fold together when you’re holding hands, or the way your heart stops when he says your name, or something. Again, what do I know?
And you’ll think to yourself, “If only there were more people like him in the world. It would be perfect.” And at that moment, the idea of children won’t be so scary.
So take that for what it’s worth, from a celibate under vows.
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Heidi Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 3:14 pmI swear you are describing my life in this blog entry, except for the part about Phantom. I too am 25. I always thought I would get married soon after high school and have kids by now. However, as I look at my life now, I don’t even want that at this point. Sometimes I think I should feel guilty for thinking that way, because most of my friends are married, with kids, and the others want to be. I can’t even fathom having kids right now.
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Beth James Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 3:52 pmI don’t have the luxury right now of being able to say that I have one stable thing in my life, but I can definitely understand it.
I hope that when I’m 25 and things aren’t turning out how I always planned on them being (since there’s a 95% chance they won’t) I have something that keeps me from completely losing control of everything.
That scares me some.
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Bouroux Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 7:30 pmHi Allison.
I had 50 years last December 30 and it is in these last 25 years that everything is played. At the age of 25 I finished my studies and I was at my future wife for 2 years. I bought my first car at 25 and 3 years later it’s the wedding. In my youthful dreams I had 5 years late. At 33 years old, I became the father of an adorable daughter.The ideal is to do things when you are ready not because the others do.
We are in a world of change. A computer after 2 years is exceeded.
You are in a world of innovation, where the status quo is not an option.
You like to bite the juicy peach.
The important thing is to do things his best and never have regrets
At 25, you are an amazing actress. We are lucky to know you and we hope that the rest of the world know you as an actress and as a person.
More than 50% of my clothes have mote than 5 years, I am conservative.
For me after 25 years the time has gone very quickly.
Smallville and your dog have more than 5 years.
Your dog is a nice big beast. I hope he does not hurt you when he plays with you.
Live your life joyfully.Bye
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Lucy Says:
February 15th, 2008 at 10:31 pmAww..what a cute little dog! He looks adorable! I am a huge animal lover. I have 5 dogs! Ya, 5 dogs! and they are the cutest things in the world!
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RJChasez Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 12:33 amAww. I’ve seen a picture or two of him before, and liked him, but Phantom’s even more of a cutie than I originally thought. He looks like he’d be good for hugs. :p
I have a dog. Her name is Tiffany, and she’s an fat little Chihuahua/Jack Russell mix. She’s 14 this month, and I’ve had her since she was only about five weeks old. She’s old, and sick, and probably doesn’t have very long left, honestly, but she’s really the best friend I’ve ever had. With the exception of my good friend who lives down the street, Tiffy’s the only consistent friend I’ve ever had. It’s sad, really, but it’s also very sweet.
Give Phantom a hug for me. I’m sure the ol boy would appreciate it.
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pandi merdeka Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 11:06 amhi phantom
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Nicole Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 11:40 amPhantom is so adorable all covered in paint!!! My dog is named Sarge and while he’s old (14 yrs) he’s still one of my best friends.
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Susen Says:
February 16th, 2008 at 2:44 pmHey Allison,
I love to listen as you strive for self actualization. I’m now 39! A number that I thought I would never reach, and I still have the same thoughts running through my head. Wondering when I’m going to have it all together, know when the bills are due - but then I figure that’s not what life is all about. Just trying to live in the present, and remember that age is just a number, it doesn’t define me. You’re only young once, but you can be immature forever. Thanks for letting us in on your journey!
Susen in St. Louis
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Joey Says:
February 20th, 2008 at 4:15 amGood morning,
I feel really sad because all my comments are removed… I don’t know why ! It was nothing more that a very positive Allison’s support.
Take care all of you,
My thoughts to Allison and Tabby,Joey.
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Joey Says:
February 20th, 2008 at 2:13 pmGood afternoon Miss Mack,
I would like to congratulate you because i think it was a very good idea to share a part of your mind with your friends.
It could certainly be very positive for both your heart and soul.
If life was a train able to make stop over at different stations, you would be at the very begining of this journey. Actually, the most important is to take the right decisions at railroad stations. Maybe should we take a profound and soft look at the deepest of our hearts as a way of being able to see and take our inside beauty. That’s very important to know a little bit more about our profound thoughts and reflexions. Anyway, If beauty of life is like a golden river flowing into the forest, i truly think that we have to be as an empty cup. I speak about both our hearts and souls. Yes ! Because i think that maybe we should be able to put some drops of this marvellous water into the cup as a way of discovering the taste of this powerful beauty. I think that we always have to learn and of course, i think that it certainly could be very interesting to take a profound regard around us and at the deepest of our hearts to get the soft taste of this golden river. But the cup has to be empty because how to taste a new tea if it is always full !
You know Miss Mack, i think that you are a very inspirated young women and that’s perfect because you know that you can get this profound look and deep breathe inside of your mind as a way of taking the right decisions at the right moments. I think your journey is a very good one. Don’t be afraid about what occured because your train and stations are very colorful. So, let the marvellous rainbow of your heart and soul come from the inside of you then you will find and feel an ocean of confort with your thoughts or decisions. You will know that they are right and you will be always happy without doubts into your mind.
Concerning your lovely Phantom, i think that your dog is like a very precious tool that can help you to see deep inside of your heart just like a mirror and that is very important. I will tell you that Phantom is very pretty and sounds so sweet. Well, in one line, if you can take a deep look into your heart as honnest as possible, there will be no riddle upon your head. Dear Miss Mack, please, feel free to mail if you have any questions, i will try to do my best to answer.
My little dog is called Cali.
Take a precious care of yourself and keep smiling,
Have fun,
A hug,
Your friend always,Joey.
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Black.Mask Says:
February 21st, 2008 at 1:54 pmWhy are you torturing the dog with all that paint / red(ish) goo all over him?
http://tvbythenumbers.com/2008/02/15/nielsen-ratings-thur-feb-14-lost-survivor/2680
You should have a chat with the people who sign your pay check and ask them why the ratings for SV sux?
Never mind; it’s season seven going on eight, Mikey is leaving, and the minuscule budget apparently doesn’t allow for real special effects.
(A grip tosses some paper in front of the camera as Tom steps into frame and they dub in a whooooshie noise, wow!)
I don’t see SV surviving another season.
(I could be wrong, but I doubt it.)SV had the potential to be so much better, but what can you expect from a low budget teleplay TV program.
What exactly does Barry (Ebenezer Scrooge) Mayer do with the 480 Billion bucks WB has?
Does he have it locked up on a private sound stage @ WB and count the money everyday? Maybe he rolls around on it nekked, ewu, I just grossed myself out. Never mind.
Ya ya, I know, it’s Tollin / Robbins Productions and Miller / Couch inc. make the budget decisions. (Cheep Bastards!)
Nemesis
So Tab, I can see you don’t have any sense of humor at all.
That’s right, I’m not happy unless I’m bitching about something!
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Robyn! Says:
February 23rd, 2008 at 12:11 ami know what you mean about steady things keeping you sane in life. this is present in my life as well, in my friends and my routine and school especially (I hope I don’t develop a dependency on school or I’ll be traumatized when I leave!). I think these things are like little symbols, representations of a strength of grounded(ness?) within ourselves, as you said. very wise grasshopper…
Lobster
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DavidHayes1956 Says:
February 26th, 2008 at 10:23 amThis topic needs a theme song!
“My Dogâ€
[based upon “My Girl†by the Temptations]I’ve got Phantom
On a lonely day.
When I need to smile,
He’s in the mood to play.Well, I guess you’d say
He brings brightness to my day.
My dog. (My dog, my dog)
Talkin’ ’bout my dog. (My dog)I’ve got doggie kisses
Waiting for me.
He’s got a sweeter bark
Than a maple syrup tree.Well, I guess you’d say
He brings brightness to my day.
My dog. (My dog, my dog)
Talkin’ ’bout my dog. (My dog)Ooooh, Hoooo.
Hey, hey, hey.
Hey, hey, hey.I don’t need no money,
Fortune or fame.
I’ve got all the riches, baby,
One girl can claim.Well, I guess you’d say
He brings brightness to my day.
My dog. (My dog, my dog)
Talkin’ ’bout my dog. (My dog)Talkin’ bout my dog.
I’ve got Phantom on lonely day.
He’s my dog.
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Erica Says:
February 29th, 2008 at 2:51 pmHi,
I still have a winnie the pooh nightie my dad bought for me when i had largyngitus when i was 10 (sorry cant spell it). I couldnt speak for a week or more and it hurt like hell. I dont think i will ever be able to chuck it out.
Love the pic of you dog, im not in enough to have one so i have a house rabbit instead, he behaves like a dog, plays with balls and chases you. Maybe you could do a mack event themed round peoples pets. Pics of them doing funny things or wearing hats etc
hope you are well from the across the pond.
Erica ( Derbyshire, England)
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Lori Says:
March 3rd, 2008 at 10:24 amHey I so relate. The plans I had in grade school are so far off from what or where I am today. It’s the fact that as children our futures are endless and our dreams often change whether intended or not. You’re not alone sister. You are not the only one who got side tracked on the the road of life. Though I have to say your life is better than mine. I mean you are on a television show with great people and a certain hotty. I’m not referring to Michael, LOL. You are still young and have so much time left to do those things you thought of when you were 8. Good luck with all the behind the scene endeavors, and on screen as well.
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The Cradle Says:
March 15th, 2008 at 9:34 amAw man! She runs from the thought of marriage? There goes it my chance! LOL
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The Cradle Says:
March 16th, 2008 at 7:35 amI like the theme song! Someone do a remix of that! LOL!
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The Cradle Says:
March 16th, 2008 at 7:37 amI had a little pup named “The Chubster” 10 years ago! I loved that dog, but I had to give him away since I was moving to another state!
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chosenone Says:
March 21st, 2008 at 1:52 pmHey How you doing allison Its been a while since I last sent you a note sorry I quest I been kind of bizzy . But any way How you doing today? Well I really dont have very much to say on today but um that think This season of smallville is pretty good. Must Of the blot for shows I think are great. I hope the writers take it a little furtther in clark destiny. I just hope there not close minded about it cause Ithink that’ll make it a little lest interesting. But anyway I just thought stop by the libarary just say hi .
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Umar Says:
March 27th, 2008 at 6:39 pmHey allison iv always wondered how it is to be famous u see im in my 3rd year of university and i had 2 pathways to go. I was an amateur boxer i love boxing and wanted to turn pro, but im a bit of a Physics geek and i find learning about Astro-Physics extremely interesting i no wat ur thinking wat a sado but i like learning about the limited theory of the big bang how many laws of science it contradicts. But im just quetioning whether i made the right decision and im trying to weigh up all the pro’s and cons of being a Boxer and fame i guess would be a major factor i recon i could become extremely good in the pro-boxing world and if i was to become famous is that a good things?
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Umar Says:
March 28th, 2008 at 5:10 pmand allison i love ur acting skills but thats one ugly son of …. lol naa i just hate dogs i like cats more i wish i had a pet tiger like mike tyson
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milton lima junior Says:
March 30th, 2008 at 1:31 pmhi mack I love you
good photos
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jonny! Says:
April 2nd, 2008 at 6:05 amkewl dog
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jonny! Says:
April 2nd, 2008 at 6:06 ami have a gecko called bernie smallville owns
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Fernando wirz Says:
April 13th, 2008 at 6:37 pmOi
I liked much of your video you sung. Sedo I am good movie for you phase in cimena I go once to go Kisses -
luis Says:
April 16th, 2008 at 5:38 pmhi!! mmm!! i think that you´re a exelent person!! end very very pretty!! jejejeje!!
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Efrain Says:
April 18th, 2008 at 10:26 pmHi.
Sorry I’m not speak english so much, only, I want say you that you are a ineteresting people and, i lake you.I like this special look that you have and the light that appears of your around when you ries, I am in love with your smile.
bye.
yours…. for ever… Efra.
In spanish:
Serie fabuloso conocer a la dueña de la sonrisa mas sensual que he conocido hasta el momento.
Ojala me contestes asi sea en mis sueños….…. disculpame pero me inspiraste esto:
I love you as the nigth love the stars…
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C. Scott Says:
April 19th, 2008 at 3:51 pmI read your comment about feeling perhaps you are a fraud. Have no fear, it is a common secret held by most. The “if they KNEW what i was REALLY like, then…..” You seem to be pretty genuine, in touch with yourself and that’s AWEsome!! Don’t be so tough on yourself. I think I’ll follow that advice myself!
